One thing I don't understand about some bisexual guys is that they seem to completely ignore the fact that they are attracted to both genders when they are in a relationship with a girl. I'm not talking about the 'not-yet-out' guys but the ones who do show their interest in other guys openly, either when they are single or maybe in a relationship with other guys. The moment they find a girl, they tend to 'forget' that they are bi. This could be because of the homophobia in the country. They probably want people to know they are not half gay or maybe their girlfriend gets jealous. Maybe they don't like doing that but have no choice for some reason. This is one of the reasons I look for gay guys more. Now there's this guy who used to comment on my pics at Facebook, sayin I look sexy and all. He apparently got in a relationship with a girl lately. Maybe he's not even with her any more but missing her or so. I just commented on his pic saying I liked his pants. He said something like, 'LOL thanks, man.' I re-posted saying, 'They look good on you. Or is it you look good in them?' He replied me with 'lets just keep it at nice pants :P' Now he's a really good friend of mine but I was a little sad for a while. I tried to ignore it but it just reminded me of other bi guys who had done the same to me or others. Again, this could be because of the society. Maybe they are sick of the majority of the people showing their disgust at same sex relationship. Or maybe it's their girlfriend feeling jealous or insecure. It would be a different matter entirely if that guy was not out yet as a bisexual guy. Although that would be sad too. But it's more sad to find out that these guys who weren't that afraid to show their feelings, are now trying to hide themselves. I don't want to bash at anyone. I love bi guys but it just makes me sad when someone who is not afraid to show his/her feelings in front of others and has been doing so, can suddenly change his/her attitude.
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